Dej - Sorry you are having to deal with this as well. It doesn't really make sense. Also, that is too bad about your sister and that must be so hard on you.

I think those that "play the system" are actually very intelligent and need to be working for the government or be lawyers or something because they are able to find loop holes and manipulate very well. I don't have it in me to do that.
It is my understanding that while on SSDI, you have to get the drs approval for you to go back to work full time or you risk losing SSDI altogether if you need it again in the future.