Hi J-moe!
First of all, welcome to the forum. Sorry I didn't welcome you sooner. I'm also sorry you were treated so badly by your doctor. Sad to say there is too much of that going around! You hafta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince......well, ya know what I mean!! I didn't believe it when I heard people say it either, but it IS true--they (good, compassionate, kind, empathetic, caring doctors who GET it) are out there! Your doctor sounds like a frog to me.

I would suggest just keep looking for a different, caring doctor. You need help to decide what your next step is. I wish I could help more. Don't give up, you'll find him/her! Please let us know how you're doing--we care!
Hugs,
Jan