Well first i am glad Bobby is turning out such a devoted friend.

As for Phyllis, whatever is in her head is beside the point, but what you answer her is what you can control. And i agree the best bet is to shy away from giving out information about Bobby. It may not be confidential but as you two are becoming closer friends, confidentiality sometimes becomes implicit.

So i would avoid talking about him much other than in vague terms... and to anything she asks say Bobby would be the best person to answer her questions regarding himself.

I hope your pinkeye heals up quick and that Bobby's laser surgery was successful and that he too recovers smoothly.

~ waves ~