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Originally Posted by Dejibo
I have one of those sisters too!  are you sure we are not related?
My sis will have a competition with you.
I have the flu, she has pnuemonia. I have a belly ache, she has cancer. I have cancer, she has cancer that has spread! Most of what she says to me is sniper fire, venom filled, and it shows through her words, and deeds that she thinks I am a lucky lil snot who has had an easy life handed to her. She has never seen me struggle, nor has she seen me sick. She only gets to see me during recovered events. ................................
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I'm sorry that you have a sister like this too Pud's friend. Dej has described my own sister to a Tee and I've come here on occassions to get support for some of the horrors that she's put me through.
She's always been jealous of me, when there really was no need. We chose different paths and I think she's sorry now for the one she took. She was expelled from several schools and refused to go to school at all when she reached age 15, was pregnant at 16, married at 17 divorced at 20.... you get the picture. I stayed at school, worked hard, have a Bachelor degree and spent 30 years as an RN which I loved.
My sister is a hyperchondriac and I'm sure she's also a sociopath. When I was diagnosed with MS she was angry; jealous that I had something the doctor's were able to diagnose where-as she didn't. I was diagnosed 32 years ago, so you can imagine the 30+ years of angst this has caused, and even though we are both in our 50's, her jealousy has never improved.
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...But now, if I tell her, she'll get mad that I didn't tell her sooner. and it'll be like I'm saying you can't be mean to me anymore, I'm sick..
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I hope all works out for you Pud's friend. Not all sisters are like mine and Dej's and she may just surprise you. I hope she'll realise just how special you are, and be kinder in the future.
Try not to worry; you have a wonderful trip to look forward to, and I'm sure there'll be many happy reunions and experiences coming up.
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