So where do I go for the thanksgiving dinner? I've never been to one of those before

I too wish that we could chose our families. i would never be friends with my sister if she weren't mine. She is jealous I think. I live the life i want in the sun with all the antipodean adventure that comes with the territory. She lives a hard working, early morning trudge with two beautiful daughters and a providing husband. Yet she still continues to think she's hard done by.

I get nothing but sarcasm, pithy comments and put downs. I daren't mention her weight or appearance as she is sensitive about both. She has thyroid issues and is overweight but of course can't control her weight with diet and exercise. So I'm the slim one, the lucky one, the one with no worries and a working partner who I'm no doubt taking great advantage of. My darling partner who means the world to me, who is supportive and loving, who doesn't worry about the future and keeps me going.

Oh well, take one day at a time i suppose, and not rush into telling her for the sake of it.

thanks for your support guys.