It is going to work out for you. I know it is. I wish you could stop worrying.
I understand about some dysfunctional people...they have their own pain and at times just want to inflict on others. If you can believe it I started feeling compassion for my parents in dealing with a bipolar daughter. My mother had told me let the state take care of me when she had it in her means to provide for me. You have to get out of their way and place yourself in a situation where you don't need anything from them. They can inflict just too much pain and anxiety. Emergency service will find you a home you can afford along with your kitty cat. YOU WILL BE OKAY
Bobby