Thank you.

I called Bobby this morning and told him I was messed up when I wrote the letter and to just throw it away. I told Bobby I was sorry I was mean to him Tuesday by phone. He said he didn't think I was mean to him.

I am beginning to see one of my problems I have in my relationship with Bobby. I am carrying over how my ex husband reacted to me when I was myself and not what my ex wanted me to be. My ex would get mad at me for everything so I've been trained to think that any man I care a lot for will do the same. I could not even be myself without my ex yelling and screaming if I didn't act totally the way he expected me to. Bobby is not like that and always says that he didn't think I was mean or anything when I apologize to Bobby.

barbara