Ugh...


You need some ground rules, sweetie!

I mean, it's compromise surely. But he cannot dictate every meal time, and make you miss your shows. It is not okay for him to tell you what time to do what 24/7.

I am going through a HUGE thing with my whole family over control issues right now, so maybe I'm taking this personally. But my dh is sort of like yours, and thinks if HE goes to bed, I go to bed. If HE has toast, we all have toast.



I told him he's gonna be moving by himself if he doesn't get a clue soon.



It was so much easier when he worked 70 hrs a week. He still works - 40 hrs. But this job, he sits and opens/closes the bridge. He's all alone up there. Comes back from work and wants to gab gab gab. All wound up. Drives me nuts.

Now I'm in OH and he's in FL, he calls me 5 times a day.



Rules. I'm sayin'....