I hear ya, Poochie.. I haven't driven, since my DH died and now I'm alone and get nowhere..grrrrr.
Most of the time that's OK, but like you, I'd like to be normal again and just jump in mah little buggy and go go go..
I have a Doc's appointment next week and it will be the first time I got out, since my appointment last year..

On the other hand, I'm thankful I have been well all that time.
When you move to a retirement village, it should be a place you both can enjoy....fishing for him and easy for you to scooter around here and there, to visit, shop or just enjoy yourself..