ok, your hubby wants to move, so he can fish. Ask him to help YOU research what is in that town for YOU to do while he is out fishing, other than sit home and wait for his catch to be cleaned. Retirement is a two way street, but too often the women who put in 40 or 50 years of service find that once the hubby retires, the real work begins. He is under foot all day, and needs direction. Hobbies are a good thing, but you need hobbies too. Perhaps living in a small city wont be so bad, so you have a bus line, and he has a short drive to the lake? maybe the taxes will be smaller, and you will have more things at your feet to do, other than sit at home. Even if you chose to sit at home, it would be a choice, and not feel like a sentence.

We moved to the back woods of NH. I expected privacy out here on the lake. What I got was isolation! be careful not to fall for the same trap. Its beautiful out here, but Oct thu April this place is icy cold and dead. Snow by the foot, and nothing but grey skies for months. We have decided to look for other places to go to.

Make sure to sit and tell your hubby how you feel. communication is so important.