Welcome to NT
You do have a plateful of problems. umm-um.
There's lots of info here. I know you'll find a lot of answers and support here.
Here is a link to occipital neuralgia:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum105.html
It's never convinent to be sick, especially for mothers.
Sometimes we do have to ask for help, or hire someone, or secure available assistance from whatever agency can help.
I don't have occipital neuroalgia, thank God. Hopefully this will not be long term for you.
Maybe you can start a THREAD on the occipital neuralgia page/link I gave you by highlighting your post here, copy, and then paste it to the new THREAD. I'm sure there's lots of supporting people there who know all about dealing with this dreadful condition.
Keep us posted and best to ya.