Welcome to NT Cece,
You're a good friend to JJ. I don't have experience with this but others here do and should be along to offer some help or tips.
We also have a social security disability forum:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum28.html
And one for depression too:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum37.html
I hope you'll find the information you need and maybe make some new friends along the way. Take care.