Thanks for all your responses.

I don't even think about remission. I only think about what I am able to do every day and making sure I don't overdo things.

Disability for me is disability. I can't even do my two hours of errands once a week sometimes. Quality of life for me has meant an adjustment of the definition of it. Lately, I don't think I can even say there is more than a drop of it.

Annie