#1 rule. Never have a battle of wits with an unarmed man.


Most folks who have never dealt with a dysfunctional relative, or loved one have no idea how painful all of that is. that hoarders, and clutterers have emotional issues behind the stuff. Its a painful, slow process of emotional discovery as they uncover layer upon layer of stuff. Its emabarassing, and humiliating to allow the public to see your shame as well. It opens you up to public ridicule. Just tell your loved one that it gives idiots a chance to vent about things they know nothing of. Stick their head high in the air, and keep plowing forward.

dont let the idiots get you down. Just think how sad it must be to live such an ingnorant life.