Have either of you considered getting an evaluation by an expert & skilled chiropractor?
Some will do PT style modalities along with regular treatment.
{ultrasound, Electric stim, low level laser, some massage or trigger point type stuff}

Chiropractic care info- a good one can help with many symptoms:
http://www.upcspine.com/self.htm
http://www.uppercervical.org/subpag...b/about_faq.php
http://www.spineuniverse.com/index.html
http://www.coloradochiropractic.org/.../glossary.html

maybe some of these will be helpful too-
Postural work/info
http://www.egoscue.com/global/where_pain.php
http://www.somaticsplus.com/ws2.html
http://www.om-rehab.com/treatments.htm
http://www.sportsinjurybulletin.com/...acic-spine.htm
http://www.body-awareness.com/index.htm

But these injuries can affect how you use your body and that can make for bad changes in the long term, if not treated.