I find that if my family ask if I'm ok then I am exhibiting symptoms which tell them I am not ok. So even though at times I react with exhasperation I do know that something they've seen in me is telling them I'm either having a complex partial or I'm going to have a cp or myo and very rarely a grand mal (tonic clonic). They are just concerned about you and want to make sure you are ok. We have the potential to hurt ourselves no matter what type of sz we have, so it's good to know we have angels on our shoulder so to speak...They love you, that's worth everything...