Welcome to NeuroTalk Art. So the surgeon says surgery, the others say to wait? Are you near a Mayo Clinic? Or can you get to one? People that I know who have gone there for a second opinion have usually found an answer in situations like this.

When you're there, the doctors all share the information and diagnosis and they have to have viable reasons for their individual opinions. So if there, and they said no surgery yet, you might wonder about the first surgeon's opinion. Just tossing ideas out there. Good luck and keep us posted!