It is sad for me too, as my husbands Birthday will be this next Tuesday. I have made it past my birthday in August, our Anniversary in September, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. Now his birthday in January. Some of his family members won't even speak to me, thats the sad part. His own brother won't even look at me and his sister says, brother is so sad and is lost without him. I am hurting too. I have decided not to go to the family get togethers anymore. I am treated like dirt. I was faithful to my husband and I still am. I don't understand why I am treated this way? The rest of the family make excises for him. I am alone, brother is not.

Has any of you experienced this? It really gets me. I had an auction sale and sold all my husbands tools, Jan 1 st. Brother came, when he told me he wouldn't. He wouldn't help tho, and, he never got close enough to speak to him. I offered to give him anything of my husbands and he said NO. I have given up.
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