Sandy - my thoughts and prayers are with you .. it must be so tough with your mom being so far away ... sorry about your cat and car ... and rain!

Kelly - aren't you getting some of that weather system from the hurricane??

UPDATE: talked with a very good friend .. got the 'lecture' about moving and not having money ... what 'IF' the disability isn't approved ... then, where will I be ..

this is SO tough for me .. I'm just so outta sorts ... and don't like NOT being in control ...