I second what Kell has to say about Mrs.D. Mrs.D, I've known you a LONG time, and you ROCK.
You don't hesitate to give of yourself when you see someone in need.
Cheri
I hope Moonshadow continues to improve, and I hope your son will be able to gather a good perspective on this event. I suspect Shadow is a blessing in disguise - and will become a real treasure in your family.