Dear Mari & Steve,
thank you both for your posts... much food for thought. i was in the middle of replying to you Mari but got a chance to chat with someone live... so did that. and now it's 4am... past my imaginary bedtime... lol.
anyway, i will answer you both tomorrow!
![Hug](images/smilies/hug.gif)
![Hug](images/smilies/hug.gif)
~ waves ~ whose eyelids are drooping