Hi Alffe I was confused also, read more of his posts between sending and composing, then tried to edit my post after hitting submit, no luck , feel very dumb. I somehow assumed the writer was a woman due to the sensitivity level. Hope he is not too offended. Whether male or female my point is still the same for either. Only the pronoun use is off really. Sorry to add to your confusion, my stroke brain is not so great sometimes despite the years of compensating. Best Wishes TT