Very sorry to hear about your pain RNcrps2, I'm sure it'll calm down in time. I can relate to not mentioning it to your husband. My wife waited 2 years to tell me she was diagnosed with RSD for the same reason. We will be celebrating our 30th year together shortly.

If shoes bother your feet, my wife Suzy wears those tennis shoes that have no heal or back to them. She just slips them on and off quickly because her feet hurt also. I pray you have a pain free Thanksgiving!