I agree, cost could be the factor.
Document everything the medical team has said to you, particularly about the urgency of her getting care right away.
have you considered hiring an attorney to help you in this matter?
In the mean time, make sure that you take extra good care of yourself.
Make sure your dau has access to good medical and psychological care....but do not forget your own self care.
Please consider talking w/ an attorney to see what your legal rights are.