Kuaila,

Recently an old high school friend wrote to me about my "being allowed to suffer for the instruction of us all." He is very religious and I know his intentions were good. But it led to my screaming (alone at home) that I had enough suffering in my life thank you and I wished it would end.

I believe sometimes you need to scream and should scream (in an appropriate place ) I have done this and then I go back to being as positive as I can be.

You are not alone. We are sorry you have joined the club that no one wanted to be a part of.

Good luck to you.

Jean