DH likes to kid around, tells me when I went full-time in a chair, have problems using just one hand "you're just not trying hard enough". I know I get all prickly inside, but when other people tell me about friends with MS doing well, responding to DMDs or bee stings or JUST have Lyme, whatever, and I don't (Not that I do bee stings), I have a momentary flash of guilt that maybe I'm not trying hard enough. If I were a stronger person, I'd beat this thing. MIL said when I told her I had MS (I know she told SIL she thought I drank) "if anyone could beat this thing, you can". That a compliment right, not a verbal burden? Right??????