They (those nonMSers, you know), we know, the wrong stuff they say : You look so good, is it really MS?
They have a new thing, bee stings, vitamin drink, etc, etc. and my SIL's aunt's hairdresser takes it and is doing great, etc. etc. and instead say:

Gosh, you really do great and compensate so well. You make it look easy!
You hardly complain and I know it can't be easy.
Here's a HUGE box of chocolates for the Holidays.
They owe me hours at the cleaning service. Will you take some, please?
A little more wine?
I'm listening.