I'm glad you started this thread! We (includes me) are always grousing about the stupid and wrong things people say, and don't give credit or suggestions about the good things!

Here are a couple of things people have said to me that felt good:

"You seem to be coping, but I know things aren't always what they seem."

"We're always going into town, so feel free to give us your 'list' anytime"

"I'm praying for you, but let me know if there's anything tangible I can do also"

"Do you feel like talking about it?"