This is where I have trouble alot. I keep trying to do all the things I used to. The psychologist keeps telling me to pace myself. I used to be able to clean my whole house in one...maybe 2 days but now i am exhausted after vaccuming 2 rooms. I just keep feeling so stupid. Kids and hubby expect me to run errands and drive everyone around all day and then my husband wants me to go out with friends and to holiday parties etc. He doesn't get it. Sorry if I am venting I guess I'm just feeling a little down lately (on top of scared and frustrated). Wish my arm would just fall off so i could get back to being supermom.