I hear ya, loud and clear, Blessings. Christmas Day is the only day everyone comes to my house and I start getting a bad case of anxiety and a case of the guilts, about now.
I was always a miticulous housekeeper, so it's hard for me to be a slob, but I will do what I can do. without killing myself and that will have to do.
Just writing about it is making me sick to my stomach..