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Old 12-08-2009, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by thelonely1 View Post


She made my dad get a tree and then immediatly got too drunk to do anything with it. My dad says shes drinking at least three times a week, and reuses to go to AA or even admit she's drinking no matter how obvious it is. My dad also says that she chooses to do it more when I come to visit. Is she drinking because of me? Am I that big of a dissapointment that she'd rather be drunk then spend time with me? Clearly alcohol is more important than me, both my mom and my best/only friend think so, and that's about half of the people in my life. Anyway, she passed out in her chair by 7:00, and my dad made her get up and go to bed. I didn't even bother to say goodbye to her when I left, it's not like she'd remember anyway....
((((L1)))))

I have so much to say but so little time... there are those of us here who have years of wisdom having lived through a situation similiar to yours....

L1 - you (and I) are Adult Children of Alcoholics

I have to run or I'll be late for work.

L1 - start learning about ACOA! you'll learn a ton about yourself.

question - of you and your sibling(s), who is the oldest?
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