Alffe....its partly because of your story ,,,,,i want to try and do this.....

and Reyn.....you are spot on....about dividing the group,,[i totally agree in the beginning it seems more appropriate to do this, and merge if appropriate at a later stage]

there is lots more thought to go in, as of yet.
i have a provisional community centre i can rent 1 day a month f0r a year.[so its feasible]

Thanks to you both for your support

David