Lots of hugs for you Sandy.....you sure have your hands full. But I know if anyone can handle it you can. You know how your Mom is and you don't let it get to you. Living with someone after being on your own (like your Mom) has got to be hard. And I know she probably feels like she is intruding. Give it some time.....it's only been a week. Things will settle down after the holiday rush is over. She'll adapt to your lifestyle and hopefully stop stressing over the small things.