Hi and welcome to NT!

I'm sorry for all you've endured. I know that you'll find useful information and understanding friends here. The link to NT's Spinal Disorders & Back Pain forum is:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum22.html

I seem to recall reading about some well-cappers from Calgary running into similiar health issues after working in Kuwait. It might be worth googling.

I'm glad that you've found someone to love, and be loved by, who understands your pain. In that, you are both blessed beyond words.

Cheers