Hi, I actually wanted to recommend that first link that Jo*mar posted, but couldn't because this is my first comment here, plus I was a little unsure of what to say.

I highly suggest that you look at that link, especially the names with a check (for "update"), because, as Jo*mar said, the update is often for a discussion of the commenter's surgery. To be honest, you will find that many of these patients ended up worse after surgery. I think that this is something that should be seriously considered before anyone rushes into surgery.