You're a very blessed woman, B2Y. But you know that. I think the same way you do. My DH wasn't the best at picking out gifts. He was good at other things, though. Taking care of the house, car, pool, etc. Stuff that I couldn't do....didn't like to do and had no desire to learn. And I appreciated it all throughout the year. So, cookie cutter gifts like you'd find at Sears or WalMart were what I'd come to expect. And I loved them! Because he showed his love all year round....not just on one particular day. And if I saw something I wanted during the year I usually got it. I really miss those cheesy Christmas gifts, sometimes wrapped in birthday paper if Christmas wrap couldn't be immediately located!