Dear sweet Bobby.

Hear Mari's words.

i appreciate your being scared, but maybe you can reframe your friend Robert's concerns as being more a projection of what he went through, and at the same time an expression of caring... FOR YOU. every individual has their own situation. "progress" is relative, and can be slower or faster. Robert is not on your meds, has a different basic physical situation, and is a man. did you know that men build up muscle mass and lose fat faster than women? it is point blank easier (faster) for them to get into shape.

You are doing great walking with him and Mickey the wonderdog. i am so proud of you. Please be proud of yourself with me.

fwiw... i understand your kind of lonely... firsthand.



love

~ waves ~