What it is, is that so many people lie to abuse the SSD system, and because of it, those of us that are truthful with our ailments, will suffer the consequences!!! Like you say, it's bad enough we suffer..... why do we need ridicule with it?? Because the SSD system has to weed out all the fakers. So, we shouldn't be mad at the system for torturing us. We should be mad at the FAKERS and ABUSERS of the system which in turn forces such difficulty on SSD itself when dealing with us (aka the real deal)!!!
Best of luck!!!!

Vanna