Sorry to hear about your ON, Kelly.
I understand how you feel about your neuro; mine also prefers to deal only with the "brain" stuff, but suprisingly he decreased the dosage of clonidine (a blood pressure medication used also for bladder control) I was taking because my blood pressure was SO low.
I agree with the others that you should try alternate avenues for prompt attention to the ON. Let us know how you are progressing.