Kicker - my dh still doesn't get a lot of things either. We went to a really nice restaurant. He wanted to try wine with dinner, but for some reason, didn't want to do so alone.
I don't drink wine - bad for migraines. He knows this, or should by now. He mentions wine a couple times - and this is not the first time, while I was in FL with him. I decline again. Finally I just calmly said "It's been a long time since I got kicked out of anyplace - you want it to be here? You want to start something?"
I don;t start it, but I will finish it. I almost got us *removed* from a nice steak house a few years ago.
*Stop telling me what I want to eat already!*