I read this last night but just couldn't think of the words to say how sad I am to hear this has happened. Like Lynn, I thought I couldn't fantom what you are going through.

My heart goes out to you and I will pray that you and your family can heal from this. I know that you are strong and brave, it shows in your post.

I am so sorry that you are going through this. How heartbreaking.

You have your second family here for you, if you need someone to talk to.

God be with you and your loved ones at this time of sorrow.

Ada