Hi,

I have no answer to your question. In my opinion though, you wanting your husband to go to a milestone meeting is not controlling. My soon to be ex-husband was controlling and he did it by isolating me, and making sure I had little money. I am unaware of other forms of controlling and from what you described it doesn't sound controlling to me. Perhaps getting your therapist to go further into it? I argued with my therapist last time until she had me understand her.

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