Dear Nuttybuddy,
Congrats on the time chip!!
This is what little I know about controlling. My parents are both controllers. And so am I. Lately I have become less so.
Controlling is related to codependency.
It is also something that AA people/sponsors would be very sensitive to.
I guess if you invited your husband that is one thing.
I gues if you insisted after he said no it is another thing.
But we/I can't make generalizations based on one event.
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I just want him to see the process of what I am going through. Is that to much to ask?
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It's not too much to ask. I wish he wanted to be with you for this occassion.
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I am feeling at a loss right now because I am depressed in a mixed state of up and down and from one hour to the next I have no idea what is going on, and I don't have substance (alchohol) to control the up and down.
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You can do this without the alchohol. Stay on track. You are doing well even if you don't feel like you are right now.
Mari