Kate,as a mother of three I can't even imagine what you are going thru. You know by now that we are all here for you during you'r time's of sorrow. Please find the strength you need with God's help! If someone listen's or stretches out a hand,or whispers a kind word of encouragement,or attempts to understand a person's loss,extraordinary things begin to happen! I will weep with you Kate,however I am praying for you and your family every day and night! Always Breezy!