dc, i'm so sorry, i know what you're going through.
my wife kicked me and my two children out of MY home, (telling the police I was beating her), after she ran me down, with my car. I still have the scars.
Then my lawyer didn't show up in court, and she took my house! (a four year marriage and ten year divorce, where she was getting 1200/mos, from my disability. Now she's a court stenographer, making real good living.
I'll tell you, we're better off without these cowardly losers!
Find yourself, and your piece of mind now.
Prayers for you!

pete