i understand liz.

i cook all the meals for my family. i plan them. they rarely give me any input. what i cook...they eat. they LIKE it that way. i know what they enjoy, so they don't have to worry about that.

for hubby, that is one less decision he has to make. he appreciates that. but the tables are turned if we go out. he or the kids decide where to go and hubby will order for me. ( ok...so that was a bad idea when i was wearing a cream colored suit and grandmonkey picked bbq)

when the people who are involved are in agreement, i wouldn't think it would be a control issue. it's just the roles we are in.