I told my hubbie to remain healthy because he might have to push my wheelchair someday, he promptly got rheumatoid!
My primary doc told my mom I am in unbelieveable pain everyday on her last visit, my mom no longer questions that I look okay so what do I have?
As a last resort buy the book "But you look okay", if the person is worth the money.
If I leave the house without makeup, well I am pretty sure that would convince anyone...............its a habit, but I'll keep it in mind!