Such as Mere. It's hard to be 'new' but simply being honest and curious and willing to do your own research [we can't do it all?] is all it needs. We are here because we WERE where you are NOW.
KP? And Mere? Do you have any copies of those tests done? The highlights or comments can be soo enlightening to you and can help US understand what's going on.
I once was new here, and reluctant to let others know too much about me? I still am in some ways. But, bits of info you feed us, help us check out sources we've gotten good at finding 'things' at! I've faith that both of you will give us info that can help us help you! Even tho we don't diagnose nor doe we treat!
In the meantime, keep yourselves glued together with HOPE and faith in yourselves! You have to have the latter to keep on going! I KNOW from experience!
Hugs and hope always! 's to you all!