Please remember Reyn that you are first. YOU are the most important thing in this relationship. You are more important than his anger. His anger is HIS problem. You have bent over backwards to help this person. Kind of let him slide into the background in your mind. Think of yourself and all the happiness that lies ahead for you when you are past this. I have been in an abusive relationship and I know that it will pass. In the meantime, care for YOURSELF. You are a wonderful person and you do not need him to validate this. Giant hugs to you from me.