You know, Victoria, nothing in life is guaranteed- things can be going along so smoothly and then can change in a heartbeat. We've had to deal with that with my husband's illnesses, which were much worse than anything I've had to deal with. He's well now (knock wood) but now it's me having all the problems. I took care of him when he was sick, and he takes care of me. I think having all the problems and pain he's had during his life has made him much more compassionate toward others pain. It sounds like you've got a good guy there- especially since he's stuck around after finding out about your injury so soon after you started dating. I think it shows the true character of a person who's willing to be there with you through thick and thin. And yes, you will find a way with a baby- knowing something depends on you totally for its needs might make you be "creative" but you'll do it without a second thought!